In the process, the scope and relationships between these three ‘skills sets’ is well learnt. They work when used for the right job like tools such as hammers, pliers and screwdrivers. When a hammer is used to loosen a bolt, it comes as no surprise that it doesn’t work very well.


“There is no need to choose between the firmness of justice and an unconditional openness towards people. The authority that respects and makes others respect the rules is a skill; the understanding that respects other people, and ensures that others are respected is another skill.

These are two separate concepts that we must first learn to differentiate and then successfully interconnect. The real challenge is to succeed at all times, and under all circumstances, in holding them together.” Etienne Chomé

Etienne Chomé